Presented by Bethlehem Family ServicesOver 20 Years of Clinical Excellence

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

Transform your communication, deepen your connection, and build a marriage that lasts — from anywhere. Join our official, research-backed Gottman workshop series delivered live online via Zoom.

Research-Backed Veteran-Owned Live Online via Zoom Private Exercises Educational — Not Therapy
Sound Familiar?

Every Relationship Reaches a Crossroads

These challenges are not signs of failure — they're signs that your relationship is ready for the next level. The question isn't whether you'll face these moments, but how you'll navigate them together.

Repetitive Arguments

The same fights keep coming back, no matter how many times you try to resolve them.

Emotional Distance

You're in the same room but feel miles apart — like roommates instead of partners.

Miscommunication

Conversations turn into misunderstandings, and small issues escalate quickly.

Premarital Uncertainty

You're engaged or planning a future together but want to start on the right foundation.

Deployment & Service Stress

Military life — separations, relocations, reintegration — puts unique pressure on your bond.

Work-Life Pressure

Career demands, finances, and family obligations leave no room for each other.

Lost Connection

The spark that brought you together feels like it's fading — and you want it back.

Parenting Tensions

Raising children together brings joy but also disagreements on how to navigate it all.

Important Distinction

This Is a Workshop — Not Therapy

Many couples avoid getting help because of the stigma around "therapy" or "counseling." This workshop is different. It's a psychoeducational, skills-based class — not clinical group therapy. All exercises are completed privately with your partner.

What Makes This Different

Psychoeducational, skills-based relationship program

Based on Dr. John Gottman's 40+ years of peer-reviewed research

No public sharing of personal information — ever

All exercises completed privately between you and your partner

Structured, practical, and educational environment

No clinical records created — no diagnoses made

The Framework

The Seven Principles That Transform Relationships

Based on Dr. John Gottman's landmark research studying thousands of couples, these seven principles are the foundation of every thriving relationship.

Workshop 1: Building Friendship & Emotional Connection

Principles 1–3

1

Enhance Love Maps

Develop a deep understanding of your partner's inner world — their dreams, worries, joys, and history.

Know your partner better than anyone else in the world

2

Nurture Fondness & Admiration

Strengthen the foundation of respect and affection that fuels lasting love.

Rebuild appreciation and counteract contempt

3

Turn Toward Instead of Away

Learn to recognize and respond to your partner's everyday bids for emotional connection.

Build trust through small, consistent moments

Workshop 2: Managing Conflict & Creating Shared Meaning

Principles 4–7

4

Let Your Partner Influence You

Embrace shared decision-making and honor your partner's perspectives and feelings.

Create a true partnership built on mutual respect

5

Solve Solvable Problems

Master a proven 5-step approach to address everyday conflicts constructively.

Stop arguments before they escalate

6

Overcome Gridlock

Understand the hidden dreams behind perpetual conflicts and move from deadlock to dialogue.

Break free from recurring, seemingly impossible disagreements

7

Create Shared Meaning

Build a shared sense of purpose, rituals, and legacy as a couple.

Forge a deeper sense of 'we' in your relationship

What Every Registration Includes

Everything You Need for a Stronger Relationship

Regardless of whether you register for Workshop 1 or Workshop 2, every couple receives the complete package.

Complete Seven Principles Couples Materials Package
Shipping Included
Live Online Instruction via Zoom
Interactive Couple Exercises
Downloadable Resources
Certificate of Completion

Take it all home. All materials are yours to keep — continue practicing the principles long after the workshop ends.

Choose Your Experience

Workshop Options & Pricing

Take one workshop or both. Each workshop is a standalone experience, or save with the Complete Series Bundle.

Workshop 1

Building Friendship & Emotional Connection

Principles 1–3 · Enhance Love Maps, Nurture Fondness & Admiration, Turn Toward

$299per couple
Early Bird: $249 — Save $50
Upcoming Cohorts

August 2026 Cohort

Fri, Aug 7 (6:30 PM – 9:00 PM)

Sat, Aug 8 (9:00 AM – 11:30 AM)

September 2026 Cohort

Fri, Sep 4 (6:30 PM – 9:00 PM)

Sat, Sep 5 (9:00 AM – 11:30 AM)

Includes

Complete Couples Materials Package
Shipping Included
Live Zoom Instruction
Interactive Exercises
Certificate of Completion
Register for Workshop 1
Best Value
Complete Series

Workshop 1 + Workshop 2 Bundle

All 7 Principles · The complete marriage transformation experience

$499per couple
Early Bird: $449 — Save $100 vs. Individual

Everything included, plus

Workshop 1: Friendship & Connection
Workshop 2: Conflict & Shared Meaning
Complete Couples Materials Package
Shipping Included
All Downloadable Resources
Certificate of Completion
Register for Complete Series
Workshop 2

Managing Conflict & Creating Shared Meaning

Principles 4–7 · Accept Influence, Solve Problems, Overcome Gridlock, Shared Meaning

$299per couple
Early Bird: $249 — Save $50
Upcoming Cohorts

August 2026 Cohort

Sat, Aug 8 (1:00 PM – 3:30 PM)

Sat, Aug 8 (6:00 PM – 8:30 PM)

September 2026 Cohort

Sat, Sep 5 (1:00 PM – 3:30 PM)

Sat, Sep 5 (6:00 PM – 8:30 PM)

Includes

Complete Couples Materials Package
Shipping Included
Live Zoom Instruction
Interactive Exercises
Certificate of Completion
Register for Workshop 2
Limited Enrollment:
Seating is limited to 8 couples (16 participants) per workshop to protect the quality of your experience.
Upcoming Dates

Workshop Schedule

All workshops are delivered live online via Zoom. Workshop 1 spans Friday evening and Saturday morning, while Workshop 2 is held on Saturday afternoon and evening.

August Schedule

✦ Now Enrolling

Workshop 1: Building Friendship & Connection

August 7–8, 2026

Workshop 2: Conflict & Shared Meaning

August 8, 2026

Enroll in August Cohort

September Schedule

✦ Now Enrolling

Workshop 1: Building Friendship & Connection

September 4–5, 2026

Workshop 2: Conflict & Shared Meaning

September 5, 2026

Enroll in September Cohort
✦ In-Person Pilot Event

Fall Marriage Conference

Stronger Together: Building Communication, Connection, and Commitment

Saturday, October 24, 2026

In-Person · Plant City, FL

Led by Dr. Jomo Thomas, Ph.D., LMFT

Limited Capacity: 12–15 Couples

Sweet spot: 15 couples for optimal experience

Conference Includes

Gottman Materials
Lunch & Refreshments
Marriage Action Plan Workbook
Certificate of Completion
Register for Fall Conference

Conference Pricing

Early Bird
$499per couple
Regular Admission
$599per couple

Looking Ahead: Spring Marriage Conference

Can't make it this Fall? Join us in April 2027 (3rd Weekend).

Workshop facilitator — Bethlehem Family Services
Your Facilitator

Led by Experience You Can Trust

Led by a licensed clinical professional who is also an ordained minister, bringing over 20 years of unique, faith-integrated relation framework to your workshop experience. Our approach is grounded in research and shaped by real-world experience serving military families, first responders, and our Central Florida community.

Veteran-Owned Organization
Licensed Clinical Professional
Ordained Minister
20+ Years of Clinical Experience
Gottman-Based Methodology
Certified Relationship Educator
"Every couple deserves the tools to build a relationship that thrives — not just survives."
Common Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about the Seven Principles Workshop. Can't find your answer? Call us at 1-800-215-9741.

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Your Relationship Deserves This

Don't Wait for a Crisis — Invest in Your Marriage Today

Whether you're building a new foundation, reigniting your connection, or navigating a difficult season — this workshop gives you the tools to move forward together with confidence.

Research-Based Private & Safe Veteran-Owned Not Therapy